When Should I Ask Him About Commitment?

Couple sits on bench at ocean after committing to each other
I had a great email from a lady named Claire last week. She asks a common question, but one that deserves addressing. It’s all about men and commitment. Yes, I know you ladies are all about commitment and trying to figure out why some men won’t settle down. So let’s see what I can share with you today! Here’s Claire’s email and my reply below… Read more

Daily Horoscopes: May 16, 2014

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ARIES

March 20 - April 18

You can’t start again from scratch every time someone disagrees with you. There’s common ground if you look for it.

TAURUS

April 19 - May 19

Sometimes you need to do what’s necessary to stay in the game. Thankfully there’s more to a foothold than you think. Read more

Should I tell him I cheated?

unlucky in love
As a matchmaker, I’m normally involved in the happiest parts of the relationship—the first date, the first kiss, the commitment to monogamy and eventually the wedding. It’s a really, really great gig! That being said, I’m also a relationship expert and I know that relationships aren’t always smooth sailing. Scratch that. Relationships are never completely smooth sailing. They’re hard work and all of them have their rough patches. And some rough patches are rougher than others. The roughest of the rough is cheating. When you’re the cheater, the big question is should I tell him I cheated? You need to ask yourself some serious questions before you make a decision on that. Here they are: Read more

Make a move or forever hold your peace

Woman waits for a kiss
Is he EVER going to kiss me!? Ahhhh.  Is there something wrong with me? Is he not attracted to me? Yes, we have all been here.  Some guys are just dumb. Sorry guys, but it’s a true story.  They just are not perceptive of when or how to make that first move.  But I will tell you one thing, If they wait too long, the time will pass and it will be forever gone. Read more

5 Qualities That You Should Look For in a Partner

A happy couple on the grass
According to an American Psychological Association journal article titled Happy Couples, along with the best selling book by Barbara De Angelis titled Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong, pointed to five discernable qualities that a partnership must have to be successful. Try to seek these qualities in your partner and make sure you take the risk to open yourself up to truly find out these qualities about someone else. This means you will need to critically analyze this person with fairness and total objectivity. In doing so, this can result in a deeper connection with this person and save you a lot of time and trouble as it will ensure you are on the right path to picking the right matches for yourself. On the other hand, if someone does not meet these basic criteria then you should not consider this person a fitting partner for yourself and have the strength to walk away. Read more

Daily Horoscopes: May 15, 2014

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ARIES

March 20 - April 18

You could wind up being the subject of controversy today. Somebody’s got to say the things that can’t be said. Truth is on you side although timing may not be.

TAURUS

April 19 - May 19

You won’t be able to do right by anyone today. Maintain a low profile, keep exchanges light and breezy, and you’ll get through this rough period with minimum wear and tear. Read more