Why your bad date wasn’t actually bad

bad date
Several of my good friends and I are single right now and we’re in constant communication about our dates. It’s really fun to have this massive group text going. I love the updates and I feel super supported as I dip my toes back into the dating pool. One thing I’ve noticed that’s been bugging me, though, is that my friends are super harsh when they have a bad date. They’ll be mad that they wasted time on a dud and really negative about the whole experience. Here’s the thing…I actually don’t think there’s such a thing as a bad date. There’s always something positive to take away. If you don’t believe me, think about these three things. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 16, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You want something to show for all the grief you’ve been through, but what would that be exactly? You’ll be happier putting the whole thing behind you.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

An opinion isn’t as causal as someone makes it out to be. There’s a tremendous amount of emotional investment. Handle with care. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 13, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

It may not look like it now, but life at home and the office (twin war zones) is about to improve. There’s every reason to hope for the best.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Someone you thought was the odds-on favorite experiences a sudden drop in support. Now it looks like you may be a shoo- in. Go for it. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 12, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Re-think that impulse to up and leave. Mars in your opposite sign of Libra says that you need to respect commitments, promises, and pledges.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Think in terms of how your actions benefit others and you will make the progress you seek. Why? Because this gives others incentive to back you up. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 11, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Used to calling the shots, it takes time to accept a new face on the scene. You may not think much of this person at first, but a year from now you will.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

You don’t like leaving things open-ended, but someone isn’t in a position to answer. Let it be. That “no” may very well turn into a “yes”. Read more

Ask Emily: How to Get ‘Ready’ to Masturbate

Set The Mood
Dear Emily, I have a problem with masturbation — I can’t do it. It’s not that I’m a prude about masturbation. Believe me, I have tried time and time again! I know what I’m supposed to do and I get how to do it, I’ve masturbated in front of a partner before and it was GREAT. But when it’s me by myself, I just can’t seem to get into it or even get to a place where it feels good. Since I’m doing the actual touching part the right way, I know it has to be something about my mindset. What am I doing wrong? Read more