It's always surprising to me when I see a young, beautiful, accomplished woman tell me that "all the good ones are taken." As a relationship therapist I hear this complaint all the time, but does it have any truth?
Most of us are convinced that people 10 years younger have it easier, have more selection, and that more people want dates in a lower age range. The ironic part is that men and women of all ages tell me the same story - but they're all young, eligible, and very dateable.
I'm here to tell you with confidence that no, all the good ones are not taken! There are plenty of eligible, good looking, and actually intelligent people out there, no matter what your age - and there are lots of ways to find them.
Here are some common areas that my clients make mistakes while looking for love and how to fix them: Read more
My guess is that both friends and dating columnists have warned you to steer clear of guys who are “on the rebound.”
Well, get ready for the curve ball that I am about to throw your way. In my experience, this is not always advice you should follow!
I strongly believe that if you are talking about a man who is a relationship-oriented guy (meaning he is most comfortable being in a partnership and knows how to be a committed boyfriend/partner) he is not going to stay single for very long after a break up. If you don’t snap him up fast, someone else will. That great guy will be off the market before you can even bat an eyelash. Why would you steer clear of such a winner just because he recently broke up with someone? Read more
March 20 - April 18
You’ll be relieved to discover that you don’t have to go to the mat after all. All’s well that ends well when Venus sextiles Jupiter today.
April 19 - May 19
The last thing anyone needs is more buck passing. Send a strong message by taking responsibility and colleagues will quickly follow your lead.
People always say that confidence is the most attractive quality in a potential partner. As women, we’re interested in the bold guy that can get an entire room laughing and likewise, we lust after the man that can keep utterly cool in any situation. Well, now it’s time for you
to become that confident woman you’ve always wanted to be. There’s just no denying that confidence is key when attracting a partner and my latest podcast
is all about how to do exactly that. Read more