How can you tell if your man has really changed?

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Did any of you all catch John Mayer on the Today Show? He gave an interview with Ronan Farrow where he talked about being a recovering ego addict and insisted that he’s a different guy from the man who did all of that kissing and telling and gave those bizarrely inflammatory interviews. He’s moved to Montana and found home, he says. I don’t know John Mayer at all, so I can’t tell you one way or the other if he’s changed. But, I can give you some hints on how to tell if your man, or ex-man, has actually changed. Read more

Daily horoscopes: March 16, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Uranus squares Pluto for the last time. You wanted to live life on your own terms and now you’re free to do it.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

You finally prove you’ve got what it takes. Now it’s time for others who questioned your ability to show their worth and lasting power. Read more

The best #DearMe lessons I’ve read

I Love Me
Are you all seeing all of the videos and hashtags for #DearMe? It’s a campaign YouTube started in honor of International Women’s Day, which was March 8th. People are saying what they would tell younger versions of themselves if they could and it’s quite moving. I’m not quite sure why this is just targeted at women and girls, because a lot of what’s being said can apply to anyone, but it’s a great idea. The goal of it is to confront self-doubt, bullying, and pressure. But, these videos and messages aren’t just relevant on International Women’s Day. They’re filled with great life advice that can apply to any day of the year. So, I thought I’d round up some of my favorites. Hopefully, they’ll inspire you, man or woman, to live your best life and know that your future is going to be bright. Read more

Daily horoscopes: March 13, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You go from benchwarmer to next in line for a sought after position or duty. Don’t try to figure out whys and wherefores. Just make sure that you hit the ground running.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

You’re in a bit of a bind. You want things to be different, but don’t want to make any changes. You can’t have it both ways. Choose one. Read more

Daily horoscopes: March 12, 2015

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ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Mercury enters Pisces today. This could make you loopy for the next week until you acclimate to the heightened sensitivity that this transit brings.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

What appears to be a demotion is actually a move on your boss’s part to showcase your talents where they would be best appreciated. Follow his lead. Read more

Foreplay All Day

Dear Emily, Lately I have found myself not that interested in sex, and I think I know why. My long-time boyfriend and I have very busy schedules, and we don't have as much time as we used to in the bedroom. As a result, all of our sex sessions end up being what you might call “quickies”. He is totally happy to get in, get out and move on to the next thing, but these interactions just aren't satisfying for me. So now when he brings up the idea of sex, I make excuses or try to get out of it. I've tried explaining my feelings to him, but he just doesn't get it. He thinks that I'm not interested in him sexually, but that’s not the case - I just feel like I need more! Am I being totally unreasonable? What can we do to make sex enjoyable again, for both of us? Sincerely, Sick of Quickies Read more